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Mom enjoys the moment, even if it’s a visit from her son who she carried in her womb for nine months, lived with for 18 years, and bragged about for 25 more, but now doesn’t know from Adam. She thinks I’m either her brother, who just died at 91 (I must have aged poorly); her husband (a corpse for 10 years); or her father (who’d be 118 if he wasn’t dead for 25 years). And I thought I was a pretty lively guy.
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2. It doesn’t matter what time it is, because time doesn’t exist.
3. You don’t have to know who people are, or what they do for a living, to have a thoroughly good time with them.
4. Stuffed animals make great playmates and, if necessary, companions or family members.
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3) Forgive Yourself and Others - Forgiveness is one of the most important things we can do in life to heal ourselves, let go of negativity, and live a life of peace and fulfillment. Forgiveness has to first start with us. I believe that all judgment is self judgment. When we forgive ourselves, we create the conditions and perspective to forgive others. Forgiveness is one of the many important aspects of life that is often easier said than done. It is something we need to learn about and practice all the time. Sadly, we aren't often taught how to forgive, encouraged to do it in genuine way, and didn't, in most cases, grow up with very good models or examples of how to forgive. One of the best books you can read on this subject is called Forgive For Good, written by my friend and mentor Dr. Fred Luskin, one of the world's leading experts and teachers about the power of forgiveness. This book gives you practical and tangible techniques you can use to forgive anyone and anything. The more willing we are to forgive ourselves and others (and continue to practice this in an on-going way), the more able we'll be to empathize authentically.
Empathy is not sympathy. When we're sympathetic, we often pity someone else, but maintain our distance (physically, mentally, and emotionally) from their feelings or experience. Empathy is more a sense that we can truly understand, relate to, or imagine the depth of another person's emotional state or situation. It implies feeling with a person, rather than feeling sorry for a person. And in some cases that "person" is actually us.
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There are a number of things that get in the way of us utilizing and experiencing the power of empathy. Three of the main ones, which are all interrelated, are as follows:
What is Empathy?
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There are many things we can do and practice to increase our ability to feel, experience, and express empathy for others, situations,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and ourselves. Becoming more empathetic is one of the best ways we can enhance our relationships, reduce our stress level, and feel good about ourselves and our lives in an authentic way.
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- Being Judgmental - Judgments are a part of life, we all must make lots of judgments and decisions on a daily basis (what to wear,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], what to eat, where to sit, what to watch/listen to/read,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], what to say, and on and on). Making value judgments (the relative placement of our discernment) is essential to living a healthy life. However, being judgmental is a totally different game. When we're judgmental, we decide that we're "right" and someone else is "wrong." Doing this hurts us and others, cuts us off from those around us, and doesn’t allow us to see alternative options and possibilities. We live in a culture that is obsessed with and passionate about being judgmental. And many of us, myself included, are highly trained in this destructive and damaging "art." When we're being judgmental about another person, group of people, or situation, we significantly diminish our capacity to be empathetic.
- Fear - The root of all this is our fear. Feeling threatened is all about fear. Being judgmental is all about fear. And, not feeling, experiencing, or expressing empathy is also all about fear. There's nothing inherently wrong with fear, it's a natural human emotion - which,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], in fact, has many positive aspects to it, if we're willing to admit it, own it, express it, and move through it. Fear saves our lives and keeps us out of trouble all the time. However, the issue with fear is our denial of it, our secret obsession with it, and our lack of responsibility about it. We deem things, people, or situations to be "scary," when in truth there is nothing in life that is inherently "scary." There are lots of things, people, and situations that cause fear in us - however, we make it about "them" instead of owning that the fear comes from within us. When we allow ourselves to be motivated by fear - which often leads to us defending ourselves against "threats," be judgmental, and more - it becomes difficult, if not impossible, to access the power of empathy.
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Empathy is one of the most important aspects of creating harmonious relationships, reducing stress, and enhancing emotional awareness - yet it can be tricky at times. I consider myself to be quite empathetic,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but notice that with certain people (especially those I don't like or agree with and also with myself at times) and in particular situations, my natural ability and desire to empathize can be diminished or almost non-existent.
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I also notice that when I feel empathy for others and for myself, I feel a sense of peace, connection, and perspective that I like. And, when there is an absence of empathy in a particular relationship, situation, or in how I'm relating to myself, I often experience stress, disconnection, and negativity. Can you relate?
1) Be Real About How You Feel - When we're willing to get real about how we truly feel and have the courage to be vulnerable about it with ourselves and others, we can so often liberate ourselves from the negativity, projections, and judgments that mask what’s really going on. When we're in a conflict with another person or dealing with someone or something that's challenging for us, being able to admit, own, and express our fear, insecurity, sadness,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], anger, jealousy,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], or whatever other "negative" emotions we are experiencing, is one of the best ways for us to move past our defensiveness and authentically address the deeper issues of the situation. Doing this allows us to access empathy for ourselves, the other person or people involved, and even the circumstances of the conflict or challenge itself.
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7. Overcome Rigidity and Pessimism. "If you are still being hurt by an event that happened to you at twelve, it is the thought that is hurting you now." ~ James Hillman. You might think that the way you are right now is good enough so why change? Or, you might have a negative, pessimist outlook on your life. Get help with these problems because they will keep you from the change you desire.
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and advertising voice background is the simulation platform,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Chen Shuibian campaign voice, someone shouted "Bian", someone shouted "president". At the end of the advertising, play the "Democratic Progressive Party happy! Taiwan happy?" The subtitle, contagious.
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A friend said to me the other day isn't it funny when you are with someone for a long time,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you forget to see their good qualities. The things that attracted you in the first place,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], are still there,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but you forget about the little tender things that ment so much in the begining of the relationship. For example,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], leaving little notes around the house or on the windshield or your car,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], also cards and flowers. Compliments when you dress nice or cook a nice dinner were also part of the early relationship. I think we have all said this one,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], "Hurry up we are going to be late. You look fine, let's go."
One of the things I remember the most were the last six years of my wife's battle with cancer. I seem to focus on other couples and their relationships. When in the midst of a trama or crisis your perspective on life will change and you will have different views on many things. For some reasons all those other couples seem to stay with me. One night my wife and I were out with eight to ten other couples from our church whom all were married. I always stayed close to my wife, never knowing when her last day would be. All the women were sitting around talking to their husbands in a negative manner. To me they all seemed like respective,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], spiritual,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and responsible men. But what I heard was about their faults,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], mistakes,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and other character flaws. I wanted to speak out and say, give those guys a break and show them love and respect. I am not judging because we all are not perfect. We should all take life a day at a time and love each other like it is our last.
I always told people,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], before couples go into counseling, they should take individual counseling for themselves for a few months. For the simple reason to see if they love themselves. Then they should sit with their therapist and partner to work things out.
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Many couples seem to think that just as they can't slow down the human aging process, they can't do anything to alter the aging process of marriage. They let the relationship take its "natural course" by happenstance until it threatens to break down, and by then it may be to late.
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First, I want to reference "The You" and what it is specifically and why is it so important. First "The You" is not the physical aspects such as the color of your hair, shape of your nose or body size but the unique spiritual energy we refer to it as your spirit, your soul or essence.

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social commentary in the Hongkong on 3 December, and the DPP flagship "bucket Jiang" campaign ", not only two two eight events and the martial law era government illegal responsibility special regulations draft," detonated "Aboriginal implicate" controversy,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], even the "old taro" has become the object of criticism Chen Shuibian; Ma camp said, "the government of the Democratic Progressive party tomorrow without", Ma camp principle ", is not entered the hatred of war". The Kuomintang in the table to cold treatment, privately borrow force to make force, through the crazy play Chiang, mainlanders, a reminder of the original return referendum have views of the blue votes.
United Evening News reported, from pushing the CKS Memorial Hall, and renamed "impartial" plaque, to put forward the liquidation over three pro 228 Accountability Act, Ma camp analysis, the DPP has "a man", had to call the hatred of war, because the past campaign, "when hatred, other values are abdicated".
Ma camp to develop a "Riptide" theory, that the Democratic Progressive Party all incitement of ethnic campaign action, like a rushing stream, once encounter Xi processes in the stone,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], stone, more aroused the spark is larger,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Ma Ying-Jeou on such a "hate war" stress for Shen down,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], because "the stone was not in the water splash", otherwise any follow up each group action,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], is to help the DPP campaign add firewood.
Ma Ying-Jeou campaign office spokesman Luo Zhiqiang pointed out,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the DPP in economic,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], clean, public and legal issues, lost to Ma Ying-Jeou, but with a rusty knife around looking for people to cut down, but only a few months before the election,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the ruling Democratic Progressive Party's remaining days less than half a year,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Ma Ying-Jeou hope that voters "stand", voters have supported Ma Ying-Jeou "ignore him," Democratic Progressive Party almost crazy action, people have deep feelings, will respond in the ballot.
the Interfax committee chairman Huang Yuzhen said,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Chen Shuibian is clearly found the DPP with admission cards are not used, had to play cards at the end of the group, once again denounced an ailing old veterans, also set a liquidation Chiang's trap, but "the Kuomintang was not that stupid!" The Democratic Progressive Party election operation, "the Kuomintang why want to dance?"
the Kuomintang in all blue occasions, took up the green play Jiang motions into cuipiao power, emphasize if not Zuoying village ticket didn't open it, let Huang Junying lost the Kaohsiung mayoral election, Jiang Zhongzheng bronze statue will not be Chen Ju apart, called blue voters must come out and vote, cannot let the Democratic Progressive Party continues to rule.
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Huang Chuangxia: green horse anti Xie Changting injured himself
2008-02-01 00:43:53
green storm a week battle, Ma Ying-Jeou first after losing stability; Xie Changting could underestimate the enemy "pocket" for further. In Taipei on 1 February, (Huang Chuangxia) on the surface, Xie Changting clung to Ma Ying-Jeou "green card" problem, the dominant issue every day,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], like in this wave of "sheema battle" prevailed, in fact, the reverse is injured, Xie Changting.
Xie Changting ignored the election, attack and defense,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the tested people, not only is the attacker, the attacker was also tested with.
confrontation period, Ma Ying-Jeou has indeed be taken by surprise, MA Office reviewed three major problems. First, with the 0112 election victory was the strategic choice, "cold" is not on the tone,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], or a bit lax, become a bit is "no deal", the lack of a step-by-step, that might be offensive and multi angle thinking and simulating rivals, preparatory scheme.
Second, long-term since, Ma Ying-Jeou people around the Ma Ying-Jeou affair, don't dare to ask more, special fee is so, "Ma Xiaojiu" event is also true, "green card" event,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Ma Ying-Jeou also say, staff can not, never thought to ask some. Make a blind spot.
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however,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Ma Ying-Jeou is not particularly "green card" events of the polls,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but all the way through the ongoing campaign tracking polls, but found, support is not obvious fluctuations, slightly down,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], because of the impact of victory 0112 emotional fever, amplitude is in the range of statistical error. Xie Changting polls still flat, no benefit.
general collection of public opinion, Xie Changting stormed the "loyalty" and "faith", also did not have "specific data" due to the Ma Ying-Jeou hurt,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Ma ban from the majority opinion, including eager to call headquarters in blue people, focus on Ma Ying-Jeou and the team of "strain" and "ability" discontent.
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Professional investors routinely take more than they deserve offering term sheets that are oppressive and serve the interests of the investor much more than the interests of the start-up team. Young entrepreneurs often fall prey to these tactics. It is so common, in fact, that people take it for granted that venture capital or other outside investment will come at great expense. It is important for entrepreneurs to appreciate the extent to which they are being exploited and know their own tolerance for the behavior.
When someone gets more than they deserve they are taking advantage of the other members of the team. Perhaps they are a better negotiator, perhaps they are a better salesperson, perhaps they lied when they made their case or perhaps they intimidate others. Whatever the reason, they have treated others unfairly and damage will be done.
If the individually willfully accepts less than they deserve problems will arise when they see what they could have achieved if they had been more diligent during negotiation. Amateur investors,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], like friends & family,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], may allow an entrepreneur to get more favorable terms than they actually deserve because they want to “help them out.” Here,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], too, problems can arise as the stakes get higher.
Repairing the Damage
In a start-up company fairness is fun. When everyone feels like they are getting what they deserve they feel respected and valued as a member of the team. Under these circumstances a team can do their best work.
The best way to manage the problems caused by unfairness is to avoid them altogether. A Grunt Fund is a tool for tracking the tangible and intangible contributions to a start-up company. Time,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], equipment, supplies, relationships and intellectual property are just a few of the inputs that help a company succeed. Each one can be valued relative to other inputs. When the time comes, the Grunt Fund allows entrepreneurs to then allocate equity in a manner that is fair to everyone involved.
Changing ownership structures often requires legal and accounting work to amend agreements, calculate tax implications and other expensive tasks that would have been unnecessary. Too many rounds of changes can leave a shareholder agreement looking like the back seat of the family car creating a major deterrent for potential investors.
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In some cases an individual will actually be allowed or even encouraged to take more than they deserve,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. This can be a form of manipulation that could be costly down the road when that person will owe favors to others that may not be in their best interest.
Less Than They Deserve
When someone gets less than they deserve they will immediately feel resentment toward those who got more,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. Feelings of distrust and/or inadequacy will hurt productivity and motivation will dip,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. Those most likely to get taken advantage of are those who don’t have the willingness to walk away from the negotiation and will feel stuck in a bad situation. Even those who ultimately reap the rewards of a liquidation event will still feel resentment toward others.
When a group of people work together towards a common goal they are a team, but when it comes time to negotiate their slice of the equity it’s every man for himself. It pits start-up brother against start-up brother (or sister,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], of course). Individuals naturally act in their self-interest and when the split isn’t clear greed creeps in. Even when individuals have good intentions mistakes will be made. For instance,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], when two founders go “50/50” on a business one inevitably makes a disproportionate contribution and they will both know it.
Treating people fairly in a start-up company means giving them a reward that is proportionate to the contributions made relative to others participating in the business. In other words,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], if you make 75% of the necessary contributions to a company you should enjoy 75% of the benefits when that company someday starts generating excess cash either from operations or the sale of all or part of the equity. However, because people generally lack a method for valuing and monitoring the various inputs made by an individual (more on this later), fairness tends to be highly subjective and difficult to achieve.
When unfairness exists, it is often difficult (if not impossible) to remedy the situation without stirring up additional problem. For instance, the remedy may tip the scales in the opposite direction as the one with more gives up more than they should. Partners will find themselves back at the negotiating table before too long.
There are two directions of unfairness. The first is someone having less than they deserve and the second is someone having more than they deserve. Both can cause irreparable damage to an otherwise healthy relationship, especially as the stakes get higher. In a good start-up, the stakes start out low, but get high (hopefully). When the stakes are high the negative feelings caused by unfairness manifest themselves in arguments, resentment and sometimes legal battles which can take their toll,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], if not destroy, a young company.
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Today, customers and clients are hard to get but they can be so easy and quick to lose. One small thing could go wrong and maybe you didn't even see it. The next thing you know, or even worse you don't know, and you have lost a high paying client for good.

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Before the election night Lien Chan will very Hao not batch of song
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saw James Soong running through, ignore the call for coordination, Lien Chan to call. In Hongkong on 2 December, and people first party chairman James Soong in Taipei elections before shouting "leave Hao Baosong",[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], also questioned the former Kuomintang chairman Lian Zhan not for Hao Longbin platform. Lien Chan's song is reluctant to comment, but stressed that before the election night,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Lien Chan will definitely do well platform,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but please James Soong do not have to worry, Lien Chan took office never attacked James Soong.
United Daily News, the executives said, Chan is still no Hao platform for election, the main hope for the integration to retain the last a little space, but saw James Soong running out,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], totally ignoring the call for coordination, to decide on the eve of the campaign party for Hao Longbin platform.
stakeholders metaphor, Lien Chan in the election last minute shot very Hao, condition eight years ago with the mayor of Taipei campaign, Ma Ying-Jeou challenges Chen Shuibian, former KMT chairman Li Denghui took Ma Ying-Jeou's hand before the election,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], hailed the new Taiwanese scene taste the same, are to the blue camp leader status, highlight the only choice object supports blue, show "abandon conservation effect by the practical action".
office director Ding Yuanchao said Lien Chan, honorary chairman Lien Chan is the Kuomintang,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], horse mayor candidate for the KMT nomination platform, called on everyone to support Hao Longbin, is based on the position of Party members and responsibility.
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Today I'll tell you about a very simple, yet very effective technology you can use. It's a problem-solving, diagnosing, goal-setting kind of device—I call it a technology—but it's just so simple. It consists of four items,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and you can remember them by the acronym D'PIE.
The final “E” is Evaluate. You put your plan into action, you implement it, and you will get feedback. And then you evaluate—you've got to have sensual acuity, environmental acuity, and know if it's working or not. If you're not getting the results you wanted or if you're getting unexpected results, then you tinker with it, adjust it—and,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], of course, you'll put it back into action again. You go all the way through it again.
A lot of times people say, "I like to solve the problem once and then be done with it." Well, it just doesn't work that way, because the environment is always changing. Think about if you were, for instance, into computers or software, and you built a complicated software program. The next thing you know it's needing updates, and your competitors are coming along and you've got to update. All technology is improving.
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“D”—Diagnose. Diagnose exactly where you're at, exactly where you want to go.
Evaluation could be a form of diagnosis, and then you're re-planning,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and you're re-implementing, and then re-evaluating once again.
I call it that because we all want the pie, the whole pie, "d’ pie," and it helps us remember these things in order. And those are,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], with any goal-setting, problem-solving sequence:
The environment changes. When it does,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you change, too!
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